Watching coverage of the inaugural balls Tuesday night was at times like eavesdropping on a table of gushing bridesmaids at a wedding. “I was struck when they did something that I remember from high school, which is the two arms around the neck and two arms around the waist and sort of swaying side to side,” former Wonkette Ana Marie Cox told MSNBC’s Rachel Maddow. “And I think that’s a sign that it’s a very happy marriage. They are literally behaving like teenagers in love.”
To which Maddow responded, “I know this not the most momentous news of the day, but our new president is a good dancer.”
Other starry-eyed news accounts echoed the sentiment: The couple “glided confidently through their first dance last night at the Neighborhood Ball, showing the world that they’re as light on their feet as they are eloquent with words,” declared the New York Daily News (via Factiva). “If this White House endeavor hadn’t worked out so well, the Obamas could have been shoo-ins for ‘So You Think You Can Dance.’”
Hang on a second. That might be taking it a step too far. Surely Nigel Lithgoe wouldn’t have been impressed with the monotonous swaying back and forth—which, after all, did have more in common with an awkward first dance at a wedding. In spite of our years of dance training, we began to doubt our assessment: Were the commentators simply watching through the rose-colored glasses of Obamamania, or were the President and First Lady actually dancing well?
To find out, we consulted three dance experts to get their take on the performance. While everyone seems to agree that the Obamas were charming to behold as they swayed their way through ten inaugural balls, the dance experts wouldn’t exactly go along with Keith Olbermann’s characterization of the forty-fourth president’s dancing as “precise.” Indeed, if one were to seriously judge the first couple’s dance prowess, they would have lost major points for technique.
“They were both on time and they make a good dance couple, but he could use a little more variety, and he could’ve dipped her a little bit,” said U.S. Latin Dance champion Melanie LaPatin, who appeared with her partner, Tony Meredith, as a guest choreographer on season three of So You Think You Can Dance.” “And their hand-hold position, although very sweet and loving, was not exactly correct.” (The couple had their fingers intertwined—a big no-no.) “Once they have some time, they should definitely take some lessons,” added LaPatin, who also runs the Dance Times Square studio in Manhattan.
Even the most adoring newscasters commented on the President’s habit of treading on the first lady’s gown. “There is an element of upper body-lower body coordination required in the first lady’s dress,” Maddow said. “She’s having to move it around to avoid walking on it, and several times he stepped on her dress when he was dancing, and then she is teasing him about it.”
Dance Magazine editor-in-chief Wendy Perron said Mrs. Obama would have benefitted from a dress rehearsal. “She didn’t realize that this was a dress where she had to pick up her train,” she says.
In spite of the gaffes, the critics were forgiving in their assessments; after all, the Obamas danced at ten balls in three hours—after a very big day. “I think he has a natural grace and … a fine rhythmic acuity,” says Village Voice dance critic Deborah Jowitt. “Rhythmically they were sharp. The swingouts with Michelle were rather clumsy, but endearingly so.”
What Obamas lacked in technique they made up for in charisma. Indeed, the couple’s little trip-ups only made them more lovable. “That’s an incredible scene to behold,” Today correspondent Natalie Morales told the MSNBC crew. “When the … President twirled Michelle onstage and did a little dip … everybody here couldn’t believe their good fortune to see a more personal side of this couple. Clearly they share so much love.”
Or, as the Daily News’s fairytale account so colorfully put it: “The vision of the First Couple dancing joyously was a romantic, storybook moment. They embraced, gazed into each other’s eyes and whispered words while millions watched.”

A lot of good talk about inaugural balls here, but nothing about Obama skipping the “Salute to Heroes Inaugural Ball”, the first newly sworn-in President in 56 years to blow it off.
But then again I suppose Beyonce, Jay-Z, Ashton, Demi and all those other real American heroes are so much more deserving of his time then some lousy Congressional Medal of Honor recipients.
#1 Posted by Your Picture Here, CJR on Thu 22 Jan 2009 at 01:39 PM
My sentiments exactly. What they lacked in technique they made up for with enthusiasm.
Wuv, twoo wuv.
#2 Posted by Liz, CJR on Thu 22 Jan 2009 at 01:54 PM
I did hear some pundit on CNN--I didn't catch who--remark on how nice it is "to finally have a president with rhythm," which surely is a politically incorrect way of putting it. After an audible gasp from someone else on the set, the pundit hastily explained that she was referring to the Obamas' "youthful energy."
#3 Posted by Karl Weber, CJR on Thu 22 Jan 2009 at 02:46 PM
Agree with the previous poster that there was a lot of vaguely racist inuendo among cable news commentators to the tune of "black people have rythm and whitey can't dance." Of course that's a load of bull, and I'm the prime exception to the rule as a whitey who can dance. That said, when people are so highly attractive, charismatic and loveable as Barack and Michelle, they could be doing the skip-to-the-loo and look great.
#4 Posted by vames, CJR on Thu 22 Jan 2009 at 03:00 PM
Sorry folks, but that was not awkward swaying...They were dancing to a blues song...and they were doing what most black folks who know how to dance do to a blues song...you hold each other and sway...a definitive dance step does not work with the cadence of that music...you telling me black folks don't know how to dance? NO YOU DIDN'T!
#5 Posted by Anghiari, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 11:15 AM
Anghiari is right. African-Americans don't use some canned dance moves as evidenced by Usher, Michael Jackson, etc. We move with the music and to the music, and our movements are not staged and formal.
#6 Posted by Yvette, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 11:56 AM
Lord have mercy. Is everything going to come down to race on every single issue about these entirely fallable human beings.I'm a 50 something female African American and I can still dance my butt off; and I know plenty of white people who can cut a mean rug. i.e. Fred Astair, Gene Kelly, Bob Fosse, Ginger Rodgers,Ann Miller, Chita Rivera,Nancy Reagan, Gwen Verdun. Justin Timberlake, Ricky Martin, Baryshnikov (best butt in ballet)Shakira,Britney Spears. Why can't we just enjoy whatever talents any person might have and lighten up a bit. Barack and Michelle looked Great and so did the Bidens's ; well Joe was a tad on the stiff side.
#7 Posted by Carolyn, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 12:20 PM
Who do you think you are critiqueing these people. If they want to hold there hands intertwined(spell???)that is their business. When was the last time you see true love especially in the White House...All those presidents before with their wifes face looking like they have botox...these are real people Mr. and Mrs. Obama and they are an example of what true love and respect for husband and wife is all about...who don't like their dance and the way they look at each other, get over yourself...YOU ARE JUST JEALOUS...
#8 Posted by Hope Jones, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 03:01 PM
Robin Maddow's comment while watching Michelle and Barack dancing/swaying/avoiding the dress train, sums up why we are all fascinated by this lovely family..."they're showing us what married love looks like".
Bravo
#9 Posted by GrannyGin, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 04:01 PM
Yes, lets face it! that is our culture. That is how we slow dance to a blues song. Listen, we also, live near, and sometimes with our mother in law and family members. People of color are different, we for the most part are have close families, we have our Nanna, (big mom) who is a part of our family, and Obama and his wife are exposing those cultural differences. Just by living his life. But what he is asking is that although we are different their is no right or wrong, just acceptance.
#10 Posted by mystie, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 07:22 PM
Come on...when will somebody really tell the truth about the Obamas. They were not dancing at all. Neither held a frame, neither knew line of dance and her gown was a very poor choice to dance in. They also had not a clue about line of dance. I hope they purchase some dance lessons. A person of stature should have a clue about dancing
#11 Posted by susanna stewart, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 08:54 PM
The Obama's dancing was just great. You have to realize that when a black couple slow dances they do not just move side to side and they do not hold their hands straight out. They were not doing the waltz.
#12 Posted by LilSugar, CJR on Fri 23 Jan 2009 at 10:06 PM
The Obama's dance was indeed a refreshing sight from the Bush-neocon choreography: two steps bakward and no step forward.
#13 Posted by novelino, CJR on Sat 24 Jan 2009 at 03:03 AM
Regarding the Obamas not attending the "Heroes Ball', they attended the Military Ball and if they believe as I do that everyone who serves in the military is a hero, then they did attended the ball of heroes. Perhaps this year the separate "Heroes Ball' should have united with the Military Ball and celebrated the renewal of a united America
#14 Posted by Veronica Scott, CJR on Sat 24 Jan 2009 at 07:00 PM
"Salute to Heroes Inaugural Ball" is a fake ball. Was not part of the offical ones and doesnt even exist.
#15 Posted by Lance, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 09:33 AM
The Obamas are a fantastic couple and did their best at the balls. The professionals who thought they could have done better dancewise should REMEMBER that the Obamas were not in a dance competition. All that long night must have been quite demanding.
God bless you President n First Lady Obama. I love you and will be praying for your family. May the Lord give you the wisdom and strength to make the US God's best. May His divine presence abide with you and keep you through your time in office and always. Amen
Shalom, Agape
Sis Shammah
#16 Posted by Fayvor Shammah, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 11:37 AM
Sussana Stewart, WAKE UP!!!!!!!
The Obamas should purchase resources to learn dance?
This is the President of the US and his wife WHO HAVE A LOT OF WORK TO DO OVER THE NEXT 4 YEARS and not dancers.
Whichever way they dance whenever they have to dance in public is of no importance. THEY DEFINITELY DO NOT DANCE OUT OF RHYTHM.
Madam Stewart, all that is not so important - happy 2009 and wish you God's best. I can vouch that the Obamas ARE NOT anti-social.
#17 Posted by Sis S, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 12:25 PM
It is obvious you're not accustomed to watching black people slow dance. We don't ballroom dance, we slow dance and they were right on time to the music. I realize it's new, you are use to seeing Presidential Balls of white people dancing.
I'm just asking you to understand it's different you can't compare the Obama's
dance style to a white couple's dace style
#18 Posted by S.A. O'Neal, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 02:36 PM
What is obvious to me after reading commentary is that America has some work to do when it comes to understanding and bridging cultural differences - even in dance. Aside from Michelle and President Obama having to deal with the train of her gown, I think their dances were great. What I appreciated most was that they did some old school moves including intertwining fingers. Those of you who know about that move with the fingers will remember that it was a real signal of wanting to get closer to you. When he put both arms around her waist, i thought to myself that he was totally forgetting about everyone else and it was all about their love for one another. Gotta love it!
#19 Posted by vernbvb, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 06:47 PM
I think that it is truly refreshing to see a couple in the White House that actually CARES for each other and is not afraid to show emotion. After what we dealt with from our last democratic president, I am glad to see a REAL man that loves his wife in our White House! Keep that love alive, Mr. President and First Lady! It proves to me that there is always hope for love at every socio-economic level of society!
#20 Posted by Robin, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 08:40 PM
The Obamas love for each other was expressed by the way they held and look at each other. If you don't have something nice to say, just be quiet.
#21 Posted by Mageot, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 08:46 PM
WOW!!! at all the very unnecessary racist remarks about the Obama's!! I'm a 54 yr old SWF who's very
glad to actually SEE OPEN affection between our
new President & his wife...very refreshing from
the stuffy look between the former Presidents & their wives....who kept their hands to each other the biggest part of the time. As far as their dancing is concerned, normally, when a couple who are as deeply in love with each other
as the Obamas' obviously are, it's natural movement with each other....they're so totally
relaxed with each other.
#22 Posted by cevera, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 09:26 PM
You have got to be kidding me!!!!! Have you drunk so much ''barack koolaid''that you think this is a newsworthy story....Take off your "rose colored" glasses and focus on more important issues.
#23 Posted by ceecee, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 09:30 PM
It doesn't matter white or black...dance is individualized. Be unique - let the music move you. Mr. and Mrs. Obama are in politics not competative dance. I am more concerned about what he can do for the economy and our troops not his fancy footwork. I am looking forward to see what he can do for our the Good 'Ol USA!!! I believe the way he treats his wife is a good example of his values.
#24 Posted by CM, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 10:35 PM
My comment is to what Sussana Stewart said in her comments.. Ms Stewart most of us have style and grace when it comes to dancing.. I think Michelle Obama's choice of attire was suitable for the occasion since she went to 10 balls.. I bet you can't dance at all.. Who are you to tell someone to get dancing lessons.. I think Mr Obama has more important issues pertaining to this country than BALL DANCING.. I bet your country ass have never been to a ball or invited to one.. You seem to be a type of bitch looking for anything to bring President Obama down when you comment on how someone should dance. I bet you voted for John McCain. Now if you wonder if Senator McCain can dance first of all can this man even move... WIth that Im owtt!!
#25 Posted by Kat bruh, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 10:38 PM
Let's take into account that the Obama's had a very long 48 hours. They had been to a concert, practiced speeches, got the girls ready, stood outside in freezing weather for much longer than anybody should have done and Michelle did it in high heels. Give them a break. What we saw that night was two people who give the meaning of love meaning. African-American people show emotion when they dance and what we saw was a man in love with his woman. It was a kodak moment.
#26 Posted by Clark, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 10:46 PM
Now that we have read the middle & left & center of White American . . .
As a biracial couple child . . . get over yourself . . . as a person of the Universe . . . GET OVER YOURSELVELVES /\ . . . WE BE DIFFERENT BY CHOICE . . . . OKAY NOW!
Your standards are NOT THE NORM . . .
It is okay to be different than White Corporate America!
#27 Posted by Nile, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 11:03 PM
The dance was beautiful and natural, that is how it is with music and dancing you feel the music and start moving and grooving. I saw a very happy couple simply getting lost in the music of the song at last. It can't get any better than this.
#28 Posted by Michaela, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 11:20 PM
Those Obama dance moves were the old school slow dance moves from back in the day. Those who are familiar with the movie "Cooley High" know what I'm talking about. They were lovely, weren't they?
#29 Posted by Catherine, CJR on Sun 25 Jan 2009 at 11:36 PM
I can only speak for me but I though they both work it!!!!!!
PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL,
#30 Posted by Wanda, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 12:06 AM
I just took a moment to laugh at all the time we all have wasted reading and discussing this issue. I was proud to see the love that Obama's openly expressed during the entire day. What we should be discussing is how we as an American culture will hold ourselves accountable for assisting the Obama administration to improve our country, not how that danced, or if Mrs. Obama's dress selection was appropriate.
Looking forward to change.
#31 Posted by Keesha, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 12:14 AM
Why is everybody being so judgemental of the way the two danced? He is not trying to be America's best dancer... He's the president! I think he did a fine job and the two looked quite lovely.
#32 Posted by Mrs.Fuller, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 01:27 AM
I'm embarrassed that I just wasted my time reading all those comments...not to mention the story.
Who cares how the President dances...and while I'm glad they're in love, that's not really very high on my priority list either...
Nice...
#33 Posted by PJ, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 01:48 AM
All of you need to lighten up! They did a great job, after a full day of activities. I agree they should have gone to the, “Salute to Heroes Inaugural Ball”,I think he should show them the respect they are due.
#34 Posted by Vicki, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 02:10 AM
The Obamas are a loving couple and they are loving parents. They set an excellent example for all of us. And talk about family values! What is more exemplary of these than unabashedly showing love for all to see and be inspired by?
#35 Posted by bryony01, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 03:50 AM
So now we need experts to tell us how we should be dancing. So what if our President and First Lady chose to interlock their fingers. That's how they wanted to dance. And they should left to show their love in their own way.
Get a life please.
#36 Posted by Terri, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 04:19 AM
Reply to Your Picture Here: Wow, that would be news indeed! Could you please site the source of your information on this? If you can't, then STFU, troll.
#37 Posted by madisonhack, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 06:26 AM
madisonhack, I'm sorry, did I just diss your messiah?
http://www.clevelandleader.com/node/8666
Obama to MOH recipients: Fuck You I am getting jiggy with Beyonce.
#38 Posted by Your Picture Here, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 10:08 AM
they could have REALLY danced and boogied I bet, but then there would have been other things said about them. As a 53 year old African American male (even when I was a bit younger also) I would dance differently when wearing a tuxedo then i would do say at a club or other social event. But I bet they both could really get down and boogie if they really wanted to. But the time called for a nice conservative style of dance. Those dances might happen late at night at the White House when no cameras are around. Work it President Obama & First Lady Michelle. :)
#39 Posted by HopeWon2008, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 05:59 PM
Get a life to the comment made just before me. He is the first President to ever have more than ONE ball to attend so if he sadly didn't make it, I'm sure there was a good reason...stop hating on our new President and just be thankful and appreciative that he made it to all the ones he did. Actually sounds a bit racist also...Are you mad that he made the "Neighborhood ball only?" Get a LIFE!!
#40 Posted by Jelani, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 06:20 PM
Barack and Michelle are real people, genuine people. Let's celebrate this -- in my lifetime of 58 years I have never felt so inspired by a president and first lady.
#41 Posted by Karen Turner, CJR on Mon 26 Jan 2009 at 11:49 PM
Come on you EXPERTS, the Obama's look great dancing. Your short sightedness is that you do not have any CLUE how "BLACK" folks dance. Take a poll of the African American communities and you will see their dancing brought back so many memories dancing off Etta James song! We in the African American community calls that dancing "SLOW-DRAGGING" have you ever heard of that? Probably not. If anyone needs to learn, it YOU experts..and the FIRST couple can be your teacher. Just rewind that tape and learn how to DRAG the African American way, OK
#42 Posted by Dra, CJR on Tue 27 Jan 2009 at 06:28 AM
unnu chat too much!
#43 Posted by Alecia Raniba, CJR on Tue 27 Jan 2009 at 03:24 PM
You have got to be kidding!
President Obama and the first lady looked like a married couple that are truly in love. Perhaps something some of you need to pay attention to.
By watching them dance, clearly shows it was not the first time. Heck, most of your couples today have a hard time getting their partner up to dance. (Haters, jealous!)
In addition, take a lesson in knowing when you see two people totally in love...Now, perhaps you need to sit down and show your spouse an example of LOVE and PARENTING.
President Obama and Michelle (the first lady) have class and are both very eloquent.
#44 Posted by Dee Dee Tyler, CJR on Tue 27 Jan 2009 at 03:49 PM
At last, a wonderful thing for families to see, a man loving and respecting his wife and enjoying been with her. The President showed the side that we want to see, ( a doting husband, in the past, if we remember our history, some of our past president have dis-respected their wives and families in ways that make women hung their heads in shame. You go Mr. President.
#45 Posted by nora, CJR on Tue 27 Jan 2009 at 08:27 PM
i have been a ballroom dance teacher for 52 years. i teach social dancing, not competition style dancing. the obama's were perfect for the occasion.
#46 Posted by allen darnel, CJR on Wed 28 Jan 2009 at 04:15 PM