One of Going Home’s goals is to leverage the “Love” to work against the “Hate.” The blog, of course, has its racial undertones: one of its key functions, after all, is to convene mostly white suburbanites to help a mostly black inner-city neighborhood. You could read a kind of misplaced colonialism into it. You could chalk its motivation up to white guilt. You could focus on the fact that Happy and Morgan, both white, live in Detroit’s comfortable suburbs. And you could wonder how much difference a single playground actually makes in the scheme of things. Maybe you’d be right. But Going Home, its advocates will tell you, is as much symbolic as it is practical—a small-but-important step in moving on from the mutual pain of the past. The blog’s potent combination of anger and understanding will, they hope, provide a bit of the heat necessary to help dissolve the racial tensions—city versus suburb, which is often used as a euphemism for “black” versus “white”—that have stymied the neighborhood’s, and Detroit’s, development over the years. “Unfortunately,” Happy writes in a post,
we have a political climate in the city and surrounding suburbs that hinders us from creating the necessary bonds for massive movements in Detroit—in the bowels of the city, far from the Riverfront, casinos and ballparks. I read a Free Press editorial recently that said if you’re a black politician in Detroit who reaches out to the suburbs, you’re labeled as an Uncle Tom; if you’re a white politician in the ‘burbs who reaches into the city, you’re committing political suicide.
Shame on the system.
The coming together of the past and present—whites and blacks—to work on the Fletcher Playground project has produced incredible dialogue and innovation that could benefit other bruised and fractured neighborhoods around the city.
Happy sometimes takes his young children to play at Fletcher Field; Lou, Shaun, and Amanda have become friendly with kids in the neighborhood. One day, Happy says, four-year-old Mandy, after an afternoon spent at Fletcher Field, announced to her mother, “I want braids like the girls at the park have.”
“So Shannon sat there for almost an hour, trying to get her thin, blond hair into braids ‘like the park girls,’” Happy says. He smiles at the memory. It’s moments like this—small but powerful—that he’s been working for. To him, they’re the whole point.

As a former classmate of Michael's and now a lifetime friend,the impact of the blogging as well as the revialization of Fletcher Playground has stirred my heart and soul as well as many other's. It may sound so odd to revisit a playground now completely surrounded by a neighborhood that has few homes intact. It is because of the tight knit bonds that were created back then that such a project could somehow come to fruition today. Our class of 25-30 at best of which most lost contact, along with many other former "Holy Name Ramblers" and God's will is why this project continues today and will continue as long as people like Michael and his family are alive. I now can take my son Shane back to where my roots of friendship began. I believe this is so important in the development of our childrens future. God Bless all involved with the Fletcher project. The kids there today now have new hope for a better tomorrow!
Dave Harding
8267 Forestlawn
Posted by Dave Harding on Wed 30 Jul 2008 at 12:59 PM
I too grew up on Dobel. Same street as Mike Happy. Coming Home is just that. A very long time ago I had a family of about 1000 people and we some how parted. Like being adopted out family by family but never forgetting those family members or wondering what happened to them or where are they today. NO words can describe the homecoming except the a flood of emotions that will remaim with us the rest of our lives. It's SO GOOD to be back. Like that song, "Everybody know your name" (still)
Posted by Yvette Gerace on Mon 8 Sep 2008 at 09:59 PM
I grew up on Leander, between Castle and Gilbo from 1954 until the ate 70's. I remember many of summer days playing at Fletcher Field with my friends.
It was sad to watch as the local corner grocery stores closed, and peole began to move away. But it was the best part of my life growing up there.
Posted by Ed Ostrand on Thu 29 Jan 2009 at 05:15 PM